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What I find ridiculous is when people buy boatloads of Barbies and Disney Princesses/Fairies in tiny minidresses, sky-high heels, and bikinis for their kids and say it's okay because Barbie and the Disney characters are "good girls," yet they complain about any non-Barbie/Disney fashion dolls like Bratz and MH who wear short skirts and high heels, tarring and feathering them as whores/hookers/bad role models. Pretty darn hypocritical, if you ask me.
Why does that youtube channel have anything to do with what we're talking about here? And I don't see anything wrong with it.
Do you know them personally? Or at all?
Justin said:
The only thing I find disturbing are the parents who exploit their children into doing makeup tutorials to look like the characters. It is fun to dress up and take on a different personality sometimes... but in front of a camera being probed by your parents to be put on public display?
It's just sick IMO. Reminds me of those pageant moms who convince their kids they're having fun when it's really all just for the adult's fulfillment.
When my sisters dress up, it's usually in oversized shirts, play shoes and they make their hair all wild. No camera or adults involved. Pure fantasy between two children.
Honestly it doesn't bother me at all. Its basically cosplay videos showing other kids, or adults for that matter, how to dress up as the characters for Halloween ect. and I know I would have been thrilled to have my mom help me dress up as one of the ghouls. That's all it is, is dress up with a little help due to the skin colors ect. Now the pagent things are a different story, thats a competitive setting piting kids against other kids. If you paint a kids face to look like Meowlody the only thing shes going to be thinking is "look at me I'm a werecat!" lol
Justin said:
The only thing I find disturbing are the parents who exploit their children into doing makeup tutorials to look like the characters. It is fun to dress up and take on a different personality sometimes... but in front of a camera being probed by your parents to be put on public display?
It's just sick IMO. Reminds me of those pageant moms who convince their kids they're having fun when it's really all just for the adult's fulfillment.
When my sisters dress up, it's usually in oversized shirts, play shoes and they make their hair all wild. No camera or adults involved. Pure fantasy between two children.
I completely agree. I find it disturbing too and it just rubs me the wrong way. If you want to share it so bad just do it on yourself. It's not cute when your child has a full face of make up on and fake eye lashes. If it's Halloween, yes I can understand a little bit of make up but this is different.
And don't even get me started on pageant moms.
Justin said:
The only thing I find disturbing are the parents who exploit their children into doing makeup tutorials to look like the characters. It is fun to dress up and take on a different personality sometimes... but in front of a camera being probed by your parents to be put on public display?
It's just sick IMO. Reminds me of those pageant moms who convince their kids they're having fun when it's really all just for the adult's fulfillment.
When my sisters dress up, it's usually in oversized shirts, play shoes and they make their hair all wild. No camera or adults involved. Pure fantasy between two children.
I'm guessing we're now talking about the little girl and her mom that do all those MH makeup tutorials on youtube?
Cause honestly, if the little girl enjoys doing it and wants to do it I don't see the problem.
But yes on the topic of children being influenced.
We first need to really think of why exactly people are influenced by something. Is it just because it exist or the reactions that come from it? Why do women want to lose weight? Because everything and everyone else around them tells them to. That THIS is the body type that is beautiful and acceptable. Why do women shave? Cause everyone else tells them it's gross and unattractive. Why don't men do more girly things? Cause being girly is bad and they can't like doing girly things without being shamed for it.
It all stems from us forcing people to live a specific way because if you don't, you're shamed and an outcast, which nobody wants.
In reality the fact that MH teaches diversity and being yourself and accepting yourself for who you are I'd like to guess that there are more girls fine with who they are than not if they're big MH fans.
What parents need to attack which deserve it a LOT is the media in general. How often are there commercials advertising diet pills or meals telling you you need to get rid of all that gross fat on you? Or comment on your ugly blotchy skin and how it needs this product to get rid of that? Or how ugly your wrinkles are and how they need to go away? Of COURSE people have such low self-esteem! We teach them to be that way!
What we need from the media is diversity and nobody to tell us how we should look. And with MH, we have that. It's very diverse with it's characters in terms of personality as well as appearances (not very diverse on body sizes but that's a different debate) and they tell people to love themselves and embrace their flaws. If anything we need to be encouraging more products out there to speak the same message MH speaks.
Parents complaining about how a doll dresses really have no idea how people in general are influenced. It's not just existing period that influences people, but what the product tries to tell us. Or at least what people say the product tells us to do.
Its also the likes of some celebrities posted naked pictures of themselves on instragram,etc...
The important thing that Kittiesmama and her mother do is wash it off afterwards. Monster High teaches us to be different and that everybody makes mistakes(Cleo STILL hasn't learned though)
How many of us left at least half our Barbies laying around undressed?
How many of us subsequently became nudists? No one?
To me Monster High doll clothes aren't skimpy. Like the larger heads and sway back, they are stylized.
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