Did you ever believe that you met your soulmate(s)?
So far, I've met at least a few guys who could have easily been my soulmates, in one way or another.
When I was in college, I knew a really zany, crazy guy, but he was really sweet. I helped him with a Creative Writing project, and he let me share my own story ideas with him. He once even said that we had similar tastes, with regards to not eating big meals.
Sadly, I was too shy to really become involved with him, and, after college, we never spoke again.
Very recently, while I was in the antique shop, I was feeling uneasy, and I sort of absentmindedly chatted with a hot guy who had just wandered into the Barbie section of the shop. After he had walked away, I was wishing that I'd be able to see him again....and knowing that I would more than likely never get the chance to do so....
Yesterday, while I was in the market with someone from my family, they began chatting with a different hot guy. It turns out that he was working for the store by working on the building plans, etc.
This guy was absolutely amazing! Blue eyes that I could've stared at all day....and all night, and slightly older than I am, and....good for my health, in that he doesn't watch a lot of T.V., or sit on his butt, or whatever....except that he travels all around the state....and I hate travel! In every other way, though, he was the perfect guy....and no ring! Well, he didn't follow the "At least 10 years older than I am" rule, but those eyes made up for that!
NOTE: Pic is not mine!
<Disappears into a shadow, glancing up at the moon dreamily>
The Whispering Wolf / Wolfie
I dunno. I mean, there's days where i'm soooo mad at my husband and then other times where I realise he just "gets me".
I roll over in bed and yell "FACE!" and he just rolls his eyes and laughs. (I'm really weird okay?). I make "KABOOM" noises when it's too quiet and he looks at me and is all "kaboom?" and i'm like "damn right" and we both laugh and one of us puts on music.
Not many people can deal with my weird so you know...
We have a lot of "in jokes" only we find funny, I try to lick his face just to annoy him and he pokes me in the face when i'm concentrating.
He's the only person i've been comfortable enough around to be totally and utterly unrestrained in my bizarreness.
Like, previous boyfriends had to endure my random exploding and giggling and face licking, but I don't remember ever talking to them in prolonged gibberish just because, or being woken up by them dancing naked <_/p>
It is quite funny to be woken up by someone dancing naked lol. Well, no, it's funny when it's your partner. it's not so funny when it's your older sister but that's a whooooole other story (My older sister is really weird too lol.)
We both love morbid weirdness, he doesn't think it's strange that I like to walk through cemeteries and our honeymoon mostly was filled with ghost tours and poking mummies (yes, I poked a mummy, it was awesome)
I dunno about soulmates, but certainly we have a great time when he's not making me angry. He's my best friend and while sometimes I want to stove his stupid head in with a shoe, other times I just feel my heart swell with love for him.
I suppose that's love and relationships though isn't it? it's not always easy to share your life with another person and sometimes they will make you want to throttle them but then they'll say something or give you a certain look and it's all okay again.
Thing is, I don't fall for people on first sight at all. I fall for people i've already become friends with. Every guy i've ever dated has been my friend first which helps a bit, they have time to acclimatize to my particular brand of totally mental.
I don't really believe in soul mates I kind of believe in fate and meant to be.
I've never had a real boyfriend or a real relationship, I've been around guys who only want me for one thing.
I never got to experience young love or teenage love back then I was a different person I regret my past and the time I wasted trying to be someone I'm not, there were things I thought I wanted from a guy but now I realised what I really want is just real love.
I need a guy who can handle all my crazy, I need someone who can love me for who I am and not try to change me, someone who will let me be me, someone who can support me and always be there for me when i need him, I'm a handful and I need a guy who will put up with that, I might changed a lot from my past but I'm still flawed no one's perfect but a guy who never judges me and always stands up for me and will protect me, all I really wanted was love.
I don't want kids so I need to find a guy who is on the same page, otherwise I couldn't keep him because I wouldn't want to keep him from something like that, it wouldn't be right, I would marry a guy yes but no kids I'm just not responsible enough, I'd get pets though lol animals are different and not that dependant especially cats.
it would be awesome if I could find a guy I have things in common cause what would we talk about?
I don't want to rush to get married or move in though I want the thrills of a new relationship I want it to be serious but I want it to be perfect.